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Old 27th July 2018, 08:41 AM   #434928  /  #1
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Email about Brett A

Did anyone else get it?

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Old 27th July 2018, 08:51 AM   #434929  /  #2
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Old 27th July 2018, 08:53 AM   #434930  /  #3
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No idea. I'm on my phone so searching for his posts would be annoying
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Old 27th July 2018, 04:58 PM   #434934  /  #4
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Brett A was a regular poster (believe his username was 'Brett A

I also got the email. Brett visited me some years ago, and we hung out making photographs for a couple weeks. Later, we fell out of contact, but I believe everything his daughter said in the emails, and have reached out to her.

I would support doing what she asked, but don't have the skills.

Can we somehow remove the personal data? Or would we need to delete all his posts or something?
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Old 27th July 2018, 05:17 PM   #434935  /  #5
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He hasn't got that many posts. I would think just redacting the personal info would be sufficient and not mess with Mindromp's value system too much.

Would help if the emailer identified the personal info's location.
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Old 27th July 2018, 05:34 PM   #434938  /  #6
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He hasn't got that many posts. I would think just redacting the personal info would be sufficient and not mess with Mindromp's value system too much.

Would help if the emailer identified the personal info's location.
Some of it is here - https://mindromp.org/forum/showthrea...6499#post66499

I have reached out to his daughter, and explained that Adenosine would be most able to help her. I also said that I expected trouble communicating with him because of being blocked

I doubt he'll see or value this, but thanks in advance for the work, Adenosine.

Relevent of nothing, I read the thread again, and saw just where my friendship with Brett A ended. Not the best way to start a day. I miss him.
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Old 27th July 2018, 06:37 PM   #434948  /  #7
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He hasn't got that many posts. I would think just redacting the personal info would be sufficient and not mess with Mindromp's value system too much.

Would help if the emailer identified the personal info's location.
Some of it is here - https://mindromp.org/forum/showthrea...6499#post66499

I have reached out to his daughter, and explained that Adenosine would be most able to help her. I also said that I expected trouble communicating with him because of being blocked

I doubt he'll see or value this, but thanks in advance for the work, Adenosine.

Relevent of nothing, I read the thread again, and saw just where my friendship with Brett A ended. Not the best way to start a day. I miss him.
I doubt you'll have any 'trouble' with Aden.

I also think there'll be no difficulty redacting the personal info in the thread.

I've lost 2 or 3 friends under somewhat similar circumstances in the past. Sometimes all you can do is point them/their family towards appropriate assistance and hope for the best. And for your own sake, disengage.
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Old 27th July 2018, 08:42 PM   #434955  /  #8
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I doubt you'll have any 'trouble' with Aden.

I also think there'll be no difficulty redacting the personal info in the thread.

I've lost 2 or 3 friends under somewhat similar circumstances in the past. Sometimes all you can do is point them/their family towards appropriate assistance and hope for the best. And for your own sake, disengage.
I didn't expect trouble with Aden, just with communicating because of the blocking.

With you here to bridge that gap though, no problem.

I did disengage. I still feel like it was less than I could have done.

There is a principle with some military organizations, where the members NEVER get to quit. (i.e. - there are NO ex-marines, just retired marines). I always admired the fact that such groups take a sort of ownership of members, even if they aren't shining examples of humanity.

I admire it, but don't live up to it. Too hard.

I'm very happy I got to learn that he is still getting care. One of the things I have learned very deeply, through the investigative work I was doing, is that being alone is about the worst thing that can happen to an unwilling person.

I feared that everyone else would leave him just like I did. So glad to hear that there were some folks in his life stronger than I am. I was pretty emotional this morning over the memories, but that was fucking heartwarming.

You are absolutely right, borealis. Sometimes all you can do is withdraw. I still don't know that I could have done anything which may have been positive. Doesn't stop me from wishing I knew more about how to help.

Doesn't stop me second-guessing myself, multiple times over the years.
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Old 27th July 2018, 10:28 PM   #434958  /  #9
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Hi cunt, no idea why you think i blocked you.

I'm happy to go through Brett's posts and remove all personal info.

I'll do that later today.
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Old 27th July 2018, 10:32 PM   #434959  /  #10
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He hasn't got that many posts. I would think just redacting the personal info would be sufficient and not mess with Mindromp's value system too much.

Would help if the emailer identified the personal info's location.
Some of it is here - https://mindromp.org/forum/showthrea...6499#post66499

I have reached out to his daughter, and explained that Adenosine would be most able to help her. I also said that I expected trouble communicating with him because of being blocked

I doubt he'll see or value this, but thanks in advance for the work, Adenosine.

Relevent of nothing, I read the thread again, and saw just where my friendship with Brett A ended. Not the best way to start a day. I miss him.
I think i should delete that entire thread. That first post is so filled with info that it will look like Swiss cheese by the time i was finished.

Any disagreement?

I know it's against the core values to delete a whole thread, but these are exceptional circumstances
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Old 27th July 2018, 10:37 PM   #434960  /  #11
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Also, reading the whole thread (skimming), it is also filled with this info. I'm going to screenshot all of it first though. It looks important.
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Old 27th July 2018, 10:56 PM   #434961  /  #12
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No leave it, that thread is great
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Old 27th July 2018, 10:58 PM   #434963  /  #13
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Any disagreement?

I know it's against the core values to delete a whole thread, but these are exceptional circumstances
No disagreement here. I've emailed with the family-member who asked, and if we can, I would like to fix this so that Brett's wife and family are satisfied.

I believe the whole thing is best removed, but I understand this isn't my decision.

And my apologies for saying that you had blocked me, Adenosine. I wouldn't blame you if you did, but I was only concerned that you might miss this request, because I posted about it. I do hope that you can accommodate their request, and understand where it comes from.

In other news, I may get to pay Brett a visit next time I'm in his area. I am going to wait for his wife to weigh in. I haven't been a good enough friend to deserve to see him, but if I need to be told to fuck off, I am confident he will be able to muster that.

Thanks again, Adenosine, for the janitor work. I appreciate your time.
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Old 27th July 2018, 11:11 PM   #434964  /  #14
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Also, reading the whole thread (skimming), it is also filled with this info. I'm going to screenshot all of it first though. It looks important.
Just saw this. I hope you can make time to talk with Ms. P-W about this. It could make a lot more sense to you if you do.

I had a tough time with some of it, myself. (flicked me in the feelings)
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Old 27th July 2018, 11:24 PM   #434965  /  #15
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Also, reading the whole thread (skimming), it is also filled with this info. I'm going to screenshot all of it first though. It looks important.
Just saw this. I hope you can make time to talk with Ms. P-W about this. It could make a lot more sense to you if you do.

I had a tough time with some of it, myself. (flicked me in the feelings)
No stress on the blocking stuff. We haven't seen eye to eye before but that was then.

Who is Ms P-W?
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Old 27th July 2018, 11:36 PM   #434966  /  #16
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Also, reading the whole thread (skimming), it is also filled with this info. I'm going to screenshot all of it first though. It looks important.
Just saw this. I hope you can make time to talk with Ms. P-W about this. It could make a lot more sense to you if you do.

I had a tough time with some of it, myself. (flicked me in the feelings)
No stress on the blocking stuff. We haven't seen eye to eye before but that was then.

Who is Ms P-W?
she is the family member who contacted the forum. I emailed her, but would rather let her speak for herself. I'm trying not to tell her story here, if you know what I mean.

Thanks again, Adenosine. Reach out to her if you can.
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Old 27th July 2018, 11:50 PM   #434967  /  #17
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Ok, cheers. Will do.
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Old 28th July 2018, 01:08 AM   #434971  /  #18
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What are the exceptional circumstances?
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Old 28th July 2018, 01:12 AM   #434972  /  #19
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I just got online and saw the contact emails. It looks like you guys have a plan, but let me know if there's anything I can do to help.
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Old 28th July 2018, 01:38 AM   #434973  /  #20
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I think I remember MR removing someone's personal info some years ago, but brain is fuzzy on details. Anyone else recall? Am I maybe confusing an MR event with a TR event?
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Old 28th July 2018, 01:55 AM   #434975  /  #21
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There was one time and I think it was freebird.
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Old 28th July 2018, 02:02 AM   #434978  /  #22
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Yes! Thanks. (I hate the creeping senility, but here we are.)
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Old 28th July 2018, 06:43 AM   #434986  /  #23
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Ms. P-W contacted me again, mentioning that she was still awaiting account activation.

Could someone check please?
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Old 28th July 2018, 12:10 PM   #434991  /  #24
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What are the exceptional circumstances?
Posts made by someone with a mental illness. They contain personal, identifying information and his family have requested that they be cleaned or deleted. The post that cunt made is so riddled with it that I think a complete deletion is the only way to go.
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Old 28th July 2018, 12:10 PM   #434992  /  #25
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Ms. P-W contacted me again, mentioning that she was still awaiting account activation.

Could someone check please?
I'll have a look
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